Let’s face the ugly truth:
You’re not your teen’s main influencer anymore.
Some Silicon Valley algorithm is.
While you’re at work, it’s teaching them:
- What’s “cool” (TikTok trends)
- What’s “important” (Instagram likes)
- What’s “possible” (YouTube millionaires)
I know this battle well. I was the kid who chose rap over college.
My Social Media Wake-Up Call
At 19, I realized:
- My dreams were shaped by rap videos
- My self-worth depended on Spotify plays
- My attention span was wrecked by endless scrolling
The worst part? My parents had no idea how deep it went.
3 Ways Big Tech Hijacks Parenting (And How to Fight Back)
After helping 300+ families, here’s what works:
1. Become the Algorithm
Social media feeds on dopamine hits.
Your home needs better “notifications”:
- “Sofia, your coding project got 5 stars from Dad!”
- “Luca, your grandma loved your soccer video!”
2. Hack Their Reward System
When my lyrics got 10 likes, I felt like a star.
Now I teach parents to create real-world achievements:
- A “skill tree” for life goals
- Family shoutouts for small wins
3. Compete With Better Stories
Teens scroll because their real life feels boring.
The fix? Help write their hero’s journey:
- Challenges → “Your mission this month…”
- Victories → “Remember when you nailed…”
Proof This Isn’t Anti-Tech Fluff
- Teen client: Turned Fortnite obsession into drone flying business
- My journey: Failed rapper → Entrepeneur teaching digital wellbeing
- Parent win: Mum who reclaimed dinner time from Snapchat
Your Move: Stop Complaining, Start Competing
You’re here because:
☑️ Dinner feels like a phone convention
☑️ Their mood swings with follower counts
☑️ You’re losing them to a screen
Book your free 30-minute call now:
👉 Free 30-Min Life Plot Session
We’ll give you:
- The 3 key tools to help your teen find direction
- A goal-setting system they’ll actually follow
- Habit hacks to make real life more exciting than reels
Here’s the truth Zuckerberg won’t tell you:
You can’t delete social media – but you can become the most interesting algorithm in their life.
